The most important word in French is?

"Bonjour" is incredibly important in France.

The French take greetings seriously. Whether entering a shop or meeting a friend, always start with a “Bonjour, Monsieur/Madame” during the day or “Bonsoir” in the evening. This small act sets a respectful tone.

In social settings, it is customary to greet women first, especially when it comes to la bise (cheek kissing). Depending on the region, you may exchange two, three, or even four cheek kisses. If you’re unsure, follow the other person’s lead.

Pro Tips:

Greet people in elevators when entering (Bonjour/Bonsoir) and leaving (Au revoir).

Let locals initiate la bise.

It's the standard, polite greeting, signifying respect and acknowledging someone's presence, even in daily casual situations such as walking into the Boulangerie, post office, even crossing people in your neighborhood or in your hotel.

Failing to say "bonjour" can be perceived as rude, dismissive, or even a sign of bad upbringing. It's a fundamental part of French social etiquette and a key to positive interactions.

Here's why it's so important:

• Politeness and Respect:

  Saying "bonjour" demonstrates courtesy and acknowledges the other person.
  

• Social Integration:

  • It's a way of showing you're making an effort to fit in and understand French customs.

  • Neglecting to say "bonjour" can be seen as rude and can hinder interactions.
    

• Sets the Tone:

  • It initiates a positive and respectful tone for the conversation that follows.
    

• It's used in various contexts, from greeting shopkeepers to entering a store or even an elevator.

  
  

So when you think that French people are "rude", think about this: Did you say Bonjour? And if you add "Madame or Monsieur", you're certain to get a smile and a Bonjour Madame, Monsieur in return.